Rexxisms

Why Valuing the Sacred Feminine is More Important Than Valuing His Reputation

I have some intense feelings about this and in fairness, I think that’s appropriate. I think we should ALL have intense feelings about this. Written into sexism is the ability to dismiss what women say. “Women are emotional.” “They have PMS.” “Their emotions make them erratic.” “They are vindictive.” Etc. What I’m writing right now will likely be dismissed by some because I’m “always harping about gender inequality”/I’m riled up/I’m a feminist/etc. So in the very fabric of the issue is the ability to dismiss women’s voices. The attitude is often something like, “If she’s freaking out at a level 10 well sure…., something happened but it’s probably REALLY a level 3.” Read more…

Men, You Have Already Forfeited Your Right to Request Equality

If your life was not an active stand for women’s equality before this moment in history, then you forfeit your right to indignantly demand that the conversation be about equality now. Because you are not a stand for equality. If you were, you would have been a stand for it when you were smugly getting fat in the winner’s circle. You are a stand for not losing. Read more…